Tips on how to get and keep a girl: Guys only please.

Every guy usual has that initial awkwardness when he wants to broach the topic of a relationship with a lady.

Deny it as much as you want, you must have faced rejection at one time or the other... Don't worry its ok after all the white man said ‘you loose some and win some'.

This rejection would certainly have either taught you better skills or made you withdraw.

These are a few tips on how to go about it...

Be Yourself!
This to me is the most important thing. Misrepresenting yourself impliedly or expressly definitely ends up in doom!
When a guy paints a picture of who he is not, and the girl agrees to go further, finding out the truth cuts short the relationship mid-air...




Woo her!
This is also pertinent, as most ladies love to feel special...
This mustn’t cost you a fortune, the idea is to work with your pocket...

Be Caring.
Care for her genuinely, that's a sure way to get and keep her. Extend this care to her family and people she cares about.

Don't be too busy for her.
There's a saying that goes like this
'If you are too busy to call me, I would understand,
too busy to listen I would understand,
too busy to speak with me, I would understand.
When I leave you I hope you would understand.'
That says it all.

Take it slow.
Some guys rush things, its actually annoying. It’s like buying a new technological device and trying make use of it without reading the manual, you would never know the extent to which it can suit your needs.
Get to know the person first, and take it slow, who knows, you may be better off as just friends in the end.

Speak your mind.
Never pretend that everything is all right. Say what is on your mind, just present it in the best way you can that won’t be offensive or result in a quarrel.

Be neat!
Try and be presentable. I don’t mean wear expensive clothes but be neatly dressed and be clean.

Don't go outta your league.
One has to be careful when approaching a lady because you know yourself. If you see a girl you know you can’t handle, just keep away and save yourself the stress of rejection unless of course she gives you the green light! *wink

Add this to your knowledge and if it doesn’t work, get down on your knees and PRAY!

These are my thoughts...